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Hey Beau Hey! You Need an Intimacy Faery to Help You Heaux Properly, Here’s Why…
This one is strictly for my beaus who want to heaux properly and responsibly. I understand this life isn’t for everyone, but for those of you with down with the get down, follow me on this journey.
Sex is a healing tool.
We’ve veered away from how this physical act can impact and benefit our lives. Our pleasure hijacked and imprisoned behind abstinence. And while abstaining has its benefits, feeling forced to closet and demonize your desires is the easiest way to resent yourself.
Trust me, I know firsthand.
I created pro-heaux, to help us revive the confidence in our sexual expression and assertiveness, and push forth the importance of getting what we want. Part of this is holding space to satiate our desires in various ways to include physical satisfaction, i.e. S E X!
In the article, How Casual Sex Helped Me Rediscover Intimacy, I gave a subtle introduction to my “intimacy faery” and while this isn’t the first time I’ve mentioned him, reliving our encounter made me feel as if I shouldn’t be the only one to have such pleasure at my disposal. Intimacy faeries are Divine. They’re never really in our immediate thoughts but show up right when we need them like clockwork.